Advice with Joshwa

I believe that everything happens for a reason. Nothing is unprovoked. I'm kind of fed up of seeing tweets and posts from people thinking that everyone hates them and that their life is crap when they have amazing, supportive families and are treated like royalty. These people just aren't opening their eyes wide enough to see all of this help. Yes we all have our bad days but it really depends on your outlook on life. 

I believe that if you think positively, more positive things will happen. 

This isn't so much of a belief. I learn psychology at school and have come round to the fact that your thoughts have so much influence on the way you view your life. If you smile more often and are friendly to people, people will return the favour and it makes you feel good about yourself!

One thing will always lead to another. Sometimes the good things in life will fall apart and leave you broken but that's only to make space for something bigger and better. Don't think that you have nothing to live for just because something goes wrong. Shit happens all the time, you just have to learn to be patient and wait for the good things to fall together. 

You might have that best friend that you're rapidly drifting away from but that's only to help you learn how to let go. No one's here forever, we just have to learn how to say goodbye. 

Things go wrong so you appreciate them when they're right. Make the most of the good stuff because you never know how long it's going to last. For example, the free wifi at a hotel I was staying at, it was amazing until I realised it stopped after half an hour! Just remember, even when everything seems like a mess, it's not a mess forever, just make sure you cherish the good so that the bad doesn't seem too bad!

You believe lies so eventually you learn to trust no one but yourself. This is quite sad but true. People are arseholes sometimes and it's hard to know who to trust. I literally trust my family and a small group of friends. It's easy to fall into a web of lies but we learn from our mistakes and get back up. When you've experienced this from one person, you find out so much more about them and yourself. Then you also know not to trust them. 

Not many people understand how you feel, but there's a hell of a lot of people who do. You're never on your own in any situation. There's always someone out there feeling the same as you and having the same thoughts. 

 

Life is full of small lessons to help you get through your time, you just have to open your mind a bit more. 

I really hope this post has changed the way some people think. Just be more positive and see the good in things and the sun will shine brighter than ever.  Sorry, this isn't my usual comedic type of post, I try to help people as well as make people laugh. 

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